How to Keep Up Motivation for Your Healthy Lifestyle When You Want to Give Up Instead

New you, old you.

Has the excitement of your New Year’s Resolutions begun to fizzle out? We start off January so passionate about our new plans and brand new habits, and the novelty seems to wear off quickly. Suddenly, February is approaching, and we’re left wondering why we even bothered with resolutions again this year.

The cycle continues.

It’s not easy to keep up motivation, even when you’re on the right track, I totally feel that one. For example, when you’re eating healthier, temptations may make you want to go
back to your old ways. If you have a terrible day and reach for a pint of ice cream, that guilt can send you reeling and doubting your ability to make your goals.

But keep up, you must. If you’re not sure how to keep going without calling the whole thing off, let me bring you newfound inspiration.

Here are some of my tried-and-true ways to keep up my motivation when it gets tough…

1. Remember your WHY!
Why did you start your healthy lifestyle? Was it because your doctor warned you about your health? Was it because you were tired of being tired? Wanting to have the energy to keep up with your kids? Whatever the reason, get back to the “why” that motivated you in the first place, visualize how you want to feel and keep that vision firmly in your head.

2. Diffuse negativity
If you’re feeling unmotivated because you gobbled down a bag of chocolates after a crappy day at work or at home with the kids, find some shred of positivity in your life and go for it. This does not make you a bad person, slip-ups are all part of the growing process Put it behind you and look to the future with kindness toward yourself.

3. See it as a challenge
I can tell tell you, as can other Moms that you can get any kid to devour their dinner (yes even that broccoli) with a little challenge. Try the same trick with yourself. When you see it as something to conquer and win, it triggers the need to come out on top. Make
a game out of it and go for the gold.

4. Make a timeline
When you are working toward your goals, aiming to lose 50 pounds can feel impossible, especially when the scale is slow to budge in your favor. Instead of focusing on that end goal, make a timeline of mini-goals to achieve. Be reasonable about them and make them tangible. As you complete each one, you’ll feel closer to the end result, and you’ll be really proud of yourself for going for it. I didn’t get to where i am today overnight, I have been on this journey for 11 years girl!

5. Get support
Sometimes, we feel a lack of motivation because we feel like an island on our pursuit of wellness. If you look around that island though, you’re going to find many other people doing the same things. There are always groups you can join to help stay motivated. Whether you need a workout buddy or someone that loves to share healthy recipes, joining a group with the same types of goals as you can be excellent motivation to keep going. You can use me, follow me on Facebook and Instagram and shoot me a message or comment on my posts if you need a lift. I will be there for you!

I will tell you a secret. Yoga is my thing, it’s like an anti-depressant for me yet I fell off the yoga wagon seriously at the end of last year, and had it not been for one amazing lady in my yoga group supporting me, pushing me on I probably would have walked away. Now I am back to my regular practice and feeling stronger and happier than ever. One person can make all the difference.

Theodore Roosevelt famously said, “Nothing worth having comes easy.” Quitting would be the easy thing to do. Take the challenge, and when you look back, you’re going to see you’ve come so much further than you ever imagined.

Shoot me a reply and let me know what your “why” is — I’d love to hear what is the motivating factor behind your quest for wellness and also what your biggest obstacles are.

If this post has motivated you, and you’re up for a challenge and being part of a great group of supporters, check out my FREE 7 Day Healthy Habits Challenge that starts 11th February. Click here for more details. I even throw in a meal plan with 18 delicious, family friendly recipes!

My 5 Pillars of Health

It’s January and everyone is making New Years Resolutions and often they are related to improving their health or weight.

Losing weight and getting healthy are great goals but is going on a strict, super low calorie, low carb, magic pill, 6 week diet the way to improve your health? No!

As a Holistic Nutritionist I deal with clients for many different reasons – weight loss, hormone issues, digestive issues but regardless of what that client has come to see me about, I always first look at their foundation of health. If this isn’t strong then anything else you try will only work short term, if it works at all!

There are 5 pillars that are your foundation of health, take a look at them below and see if you have a healthy foundation.

  1. Food & Diet

My #1 rule is to Eat Real Food. This means eating food as close to nature as possible. Real whole foods are foods that are unprocessed, unrefined and are free from additives or other artificial substances.

Food is delicious but it’s about more than pleasure – its essential fuel for our cells that helps us thrive. Every single function in our body is able to occur because of amino acids, essential fatty acids, glucose, vitamins, and minerals. And where do we get all those things from? Why, from food of course!

We are very lucky in that we are able to choose what we want to eat. Every time we put food or drink in our mouths we are making a choice. This choice, however, has led many of us down a long and winding road in the wrong direction.  Take a look at your diet, if 80% or more of the food you eat comes from real food – great. If not, this is where you need to start. Check out my lightened up Caesar Salad recipe to help you along!

  1. Hydration

Our bodies are made up of more than 70% water. We can only go a few days without water for survival but most of us don’t drink enough fresh water on a daily basis. We’re basically going about our days dehydrated to some degree.

You should be drinking 50% of your body weight in ounces every day, are you? If not, get that reusable water bottle out and start drinking!

  1. Sleep

Sleep is one of the most important health habits, yet one of the most overlooked.

Are you waking up feeling refreshed or do you struggle to pull yourself out of bed and can’t function without your morning coffee?

Are you depending on coffee to get you through the day?

Are you getting 7-9 hours of good quality sleep every night?

If not, maybe you should be switching off the TV or putting down your phone and going to bed earlier!

  1. Movement/Exercise

Movement is fundamental for our bodies, minds, and spirit, and yet we often avoid it and put it off. We don’t have enough time, it’s too tiring, boring, or hard. Exercise shouldn’t be any of these things and if it is, you may be doing it wrong.

Moderate exercise should be something enjoyable, an activity you look forward to. This may mean going to yoga (my favourite), riding a bike, hiking/walking, or taking a dance class.

Plan for exercise, just like you would plan for anything else. It must become a habit. If you enjoy doing something, you are more likely to stick with it, which is most important.

Our bodies were meant to move, let’s get moving!

  1. Stress/Mental Health

The word ‘stress’ gets thrown around a lot in our culture. But how many of us actually know what stress really does to our bodies?

Stress affects more than just your emotional state. It has wide reaching effects on digestion, cardiovascular function, muscles, metabolism and more. Unfortunately, the physical effects of stress can last long after you’ve met that work deadline or resolved that conflict with your partner.

Working on stress reduction is critical on the path to optimal health, do you have any stress management techniques in place?

If after reading these over, you feel overwhelmed but are ready to commit to improving your health then click this link to find out more about my 6 week and 3 month coaching programs.

My coaching programs are designed to provide a personalized approach to each and every client and their goals whether you are starting from the ground up or just need a kick-start.

 

My Handy Tip to Balance Hormones & Reduce Cravings

I’m going to share ONE tip with you that will help keep your hormones balanced and reduce cravings in just 48 – 72 hours.

This ONE tip was a game changer for me in the early days and still keeps me on the straight and narrow. Here it is…

Eat breakfast!

If you can handle a huge protein packed breakfast at that time then awesome go for it but if you struggle to get anything down you at that time of day then try starting with a power packed drink such as an elixir. Elixirs have become a staple in my life, they allow me to fuel myself to get through the crazy mornings of kids & backpacks and school drop offs.

Here’s what a typical elixir looks like for me:

1 cup each of water & unsweetened coconut milk (heated)
1 tsp Matcha Green tea powder
1 tsp coconut manna (aka coconut butter or you can use coconut oil)
1 tsp almond butter (or any other nut butter)
2 Tbsp Organika Enhanced Collagen
1 tsp raw honey
Dash of cinnamon & pure vanilla extract

Add all ingredients to your blender and blend on low for 45 – 60 seconds. Pour into a mug and enjoy!

Check out these recipes from fellow nutritionist Meghan Telpner for other delicious elixir recipes.

I often get asked about my daily eating routine so this is what a typical day looks like for me:

  • 6am get up & ready, head downstairs and drink 500ml of lemon water
  • 7am drink elixir
  • 9.30-10 drink smoothie
  • 1pm lunch
  • 5.30 dinner

Having breakfast is a simple tip is something we can all easily do. Eating a breakfast packed with proteins and/or healthy fats or drinking an elixir is like an insurance policy against raging blood sugar levels and surging amounts of insulin (fat storage hormone).

Eating a protein & healthy fat filled breakfast has been proven to:

  • Help balanced leptin levels (hormones that shut off hunger)
  • Keep blood sugar levels stable
  • Dramatically reduce cravings throughout the rest of the day
  • Reduce feelings of hunger causing you to consume less calories
  • And help to speed up metabolism through its thermogenic effects

Try incorporating the above tip and let me know if you notice a difference, I would love to hear from you.

If you are ready to learn more, there’s still time to sign up for my Healthier You 10 week program but registration CLOSES IN 5 DAYS!

Mel

4 Dieting Mistakes That Stop Fat Loss

I have been fortunate enough to coach many women through their weight loss journey and through working with my clients I’ve been able to pinpoint 4 mistakes that 90% of dieters make. I believe that these mistakes are mostly to blame for your inability to lose the weight or keep it off long-term.

It’s not your fault that the diet books, cookie cutter programs or even doctor supervised programs don’t provide nutrition education. How are you supposed to know which bread you should be buying, how to choose a yogurt or how to modify your meal at your favorite restaurant so you can continue to eat the foods you love?

Here are the 4 mistakes i see my clients making all the time that hinders their health and weight loss goals.

  1. Not enough fiber

So many people are busy avoiding carbs and going gluten-free that they forget the most important component: FIBER. Most gluten-free products are very low in fiber and when you cut carbs out of your diet you are getting rid of the food group that provides fiber.

Success long-term greatly depends on your digestive system health, ability to have daily bowel movements and stable blood sugar levels. Without low glycemic load carbohydrates it’s likely you will feel hungry, have cravings and binge. Fiber is also essential to transport toxic estrogen out of the body and a key component in keeping cholesterol levels low.

Check out this high fiber make ahead Chopped Rainbow Salad recipe which is ideal for lunches on those busy days. This is just one of 46 delicious recipes available in my Healthier You program.

  1. Lack of adequate water intake

Water is the liquid gold that keeps the body running smoothly. Adequate water will help to keep you regular, nourish your cells, avoid cravings (thirst shows up as hunger) and make you feel leaner.

The more water you consume the less you retain. Aim to drink 50 to 60% of your total body weight in ounces daily.

  1. Too much dairy

This one is really too bad because who doesn’t love cheese! There are some exceptions to this rule like raw cheese, plain Greek yogurt, kefir and of course the array of milk alternatives.

Most trendy yogurts and over the counter dairy sources, have hidden milk sugars, artificial sugars, artificial binders, preservatives and unhealthy fats. Don’t be fooled because most dairy isn’t a good source of protein.

Yes, you can still have a couple of servings of dairy daily (if you can tolerate them) but stick to plain Greek yogurt, cottage cheese or unsweetened dairy alternatives.

  1. Not eating enough

It’s typical of most diets to cut calories to dangerously low levels. Eating less does not produce faster fat loss results. Studies have shown that it only takes 7 to 10 days of reducing calories to throw your body into ‘starvation mode’ where your metabolic processes slow to a screeching halt.

I understand that it’s psychologically challenging to consume more food since the commonly held belief is that more food will contribute to weight gain. Take a look around you… its’ not about less food, more food or even organic food.

It’s about eating the strategic foods that are right for your body to promote fat loss and improve your health. Most traditional diets have these typical flaws that can potentially damage your metabolism, lower your thyroid and intensify cravings causing you to binge.

This is the type of information you will learn throughout my Healthier You program and remember the saying “knowledge is power’ that is what I am going to give you, the power to take back control of your life.

Are you with me? Registration closes in 10 days! Click here to learn more. 

Mel